

Book Resources

By: Paul Tautges
This book is a treasure chest of pastoral theology that will equip you to reach out to those who grieve with the Christ-centered comfort of God rooted in the gospel. The theological foundation espoused here, as well as the numerous practical helps that are included, will help any servant of the Lord to point the hearts and minds of the bereaved to the 'man of sorrows' who is 'acquainted with grief' (Isaiah 53:3).

By: Robert Kellemen
You’re tired of quick quips (“Just trust God”) and false hopes (“Time heals all wounds”). You’re ready for real and raw, honest and hopeful conversation about suffering, loss, and grief—from a Christian perspective. You’re longing for real answers, for real people, with real struggles. You’ve come to the right place. When life’s losses invade your world, learn how to face suffering face-to-face with God.

By: John MacArthur
"Is my baby in heaven?"
This is the most important question a grieving parent can ask. And even if the little one is someone else's child, the issue remains: What happens to children?Those unborn, stillborn, or youngsters when they die? Can you hope to see them again? Can you let go of your fear and guilt? Can God's love soothe a wound so jagged?
With scriptural authority and the warmth of a pastor's heart, bestselling author John MacArthur examines the breadth of the entire Bible and reveals in this compelling book the Heavenly Father's care for every life.
This is the most important question a grieving parent can ask. And even if the little one is someone else's child, the issue remains: What happens to children?Those unborn, stillborn, or youngsters when they die? Can you hope to see them again? Can you let go of your fear and guilt? Can God's love soothe a wound so jagged?
With scriptural authority and the warmth of a pastor's heart, bestselling author John MacArthur examines the breadth of the entire Bible and reveals in this compelling book the Heavenly Father's care for every life.

By: Eric Kress and Paul Tautges
In this book, two pastors and counselors sit down beside you and warmly take you into the book of Lamentations where you will be encouraged to hope in God. Learn how to fasten the rope of your faith to the anchor of God’s unfailing love. I heartily recommend this book for those who are in times of deep distress and for the body of Christ that needs to be prepared for every possible form of suffering that may come our way, or that may come in the lives of those we need to reach out to for the glory of God.




By: Tim Challies
By: Eric Vroegop
By: Bob Kellemen
By: David Powlison
On November 3, 2020, Tim and Aileen Challies received the shocking news that their son Nick had died. In Seasons of Sorrow, Tim shares real-time reflections from the first year of grief—through the seasons from fall to summer—introducing readers to what he describes as the “ministry of sorrow.”
- See how God is sovereign over loss and that he is good in loss
- Discover how you can pass through times of grief while keeping your faith
- Learn how biblical doctrine can work itself out even in life’s most difficult situations
- Understand how it is possible to love God more after loss than you loved him before
Lament is how you live between the poles of a hard life and trusting God’s goodness. Lament is how we bring our sorrow to God—but it is a neglected dimension of the Christian life for many Christians today. We need to recover the practice of honest spiritual struggle that gives us permission to vocalize our pain and wrestle with our sorrow. Lament avoids trite answers and quick solutions, progressively moving us toward deeper worship and trust.
Exploring how the Bible—through the psalms of lament and the book of Lamentations—gives voice to our pain, this book invites us to grieve, struggle, and tap into the rich reservoir of grace and mercy God offers in the darkest moments of our lives.
Exploring how the Bible—through the psalms of lament and the book of Lamentations—gives voice to our pain, this book invites us to grieve, struggle, and tap into the rich reservoir of grace and mercy God offers in the darkest moments of our lives.
Are those who have faith in God’s goodness supposed to grieve? Bob Kellemen reminds us that the Bible is both painfully honest and eternally encouraging about our hurts—assuring us that it is normal to hurt but also possible to hope. This devotional offers suggested resources and reflection questions to help you to apply gospel truth, day by day, to your grief. Be honest with your grief and give voice to it—then see how you can find comfort and even bring comfort to others.
Someone you know and love has died. You feel the emptiness and sorrow of loss. That alone is extremely hard. But suicide adds many other painful reactions to the heartache that death brings. Common reactions are feelings of anger, guilt, betrayal, and many, many unanswerable questions.
This is one of life's broken, dark experiences in which you need help and encouragement to remember that the promises and presence of your God and Savior are real. Powlison points you toward God who will be with you, uphold you, and help you live by faith through this tragedy.
This is one of life's broken, dark experiences in which you need help and encouragement to remember that the promises and presence of your God and Savior are real. Powlison points you toward God who will be with you, uphold you, and help you live by faith through this tragedy.



By: Sue Nicewander Delaney
Those who are newly widowed face huge adjustments in their lives as well as unspeakable grief and isolation. Here, Sue Nicewander Delaney tells her story, describing her pain, frustrations, exhaustion, aloneness, fears, and questions about God. She shares the comfort and encouragement God gave her, so that others might know that they, too, are not alone, that God hasn't left them, and that he can use even widowhood for his good purposes.
By: Paul Tautges
Author and pastor Paul Tautges offers our comforting High Priest, sharing how the Holy Spirit ministers to our hurting heart through the healing balm of God's Word graciously applied to life's wounds.
By biblically and transparently addressing the heart and faith struggles in the midst of this grief, A Small Book for the Hurting Heart delves deeply, but gently, into the issues of the heart presenting encouragement and comfort in the character of God revealed in his Word.
This small but transformative Christian book cultivates anchors of hope, redirecting men and women to the trustworthiness of God who is always for us in Christ. Because all of God's promises are Yes in Christ, Tautges walks with readers through their grief to see the one who nourishes our faith and heals our soul.
By biblically and transparently addressing the heart and faith struggles in the midst of this grief, A Small Book for the Hurting Heart delves deeply, but gently, into the issues of the heart presenting encouragement and comfort in the character of God revealed in his Word.
This small but transformative Christian book cultivates anchors of hope, redirecting men and women to the trustworthiness of God who is always for us in Christ. Because all of God's promises are Yes in Christ, Tautges walks with readers through their grief to see the one who nourishes our faith and heals our soul.
By: Ed Welch
When someone is grieving, it can be hard to know what to say or do. We want to be helpful, not hurtful, but it’s easy to go wrong. The good news is that we can learn to approach those who are grieving with the same compassion that Jesus shows us when we are grieving. It starts with humility and listening well and expands into practical support as the Spirit leads us.
In Someone I Know Is Grieving, Edward T. Welch leans on his many years of counseling grieving people to help readers learn from their compassionate Savior how to respond to people’s sadness and hard times without advice or trying to “fix it,” but to instead hear their story, learn from others’ experiences, and depend on the Spirit for wisdom for what to say and do.
In Someone I Know Is Grieving, Edward T. Welch leans on his many years of counseling grieving people to help readers learn from their compassionate Savior how to respond to people’s sadness and hard times without advice or trying to “fix it,” but to instead hear their story, learn from others’ experiences, and depend on the Spirit for wisdom for what to say and do.
Online Resources
CCEF Counseling Resources for Grief
https://www.ccef.org/search/?search=Grief
CCEF Counseling Resources for Miscarriage
https://www.ccef.org/search/?search=miscarriage
IBCD Counseling Resources for Grief
https://ibcd.org/?s=grief
Comforting Those Who Have Lost Loved Ones
By Jim Newhieser
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/comforting-those-who-have-lost-loved-ones/
Hope When Hopes Die
By Nancy Snyder
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/hope-when-hopes-die/\
Stand Alone on the Word of God
By Mark Williams
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/stand-alone-on-the-word-of-god-a-miscarriage-story/
Consumed by God’s Love in Our Grief
By Kim Shadday
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/consumed-by-gods-love-in-our-grief/
Interpreting Grief According to God’s Truth
By Ace Espenshied
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/interpreting-grief-according-to-gods-truth/
When Tragedy Strikes
By Grace Glass
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/when-tragedy-strikes-how-to-grieve-with-hope-in-the-lord/
Grieving the Loved Ones We’ve Lost
By Heath Lambert
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-052-grieving-the-loved-ones-weve-lost/
Hope and Joy in a Season of Grief
By Diane Jacoby
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/hope-and-joy-in-a-season-of-grief/
For the Grieving Parent with the Loss of a Child
By Kevin Carson
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/for-the-grieving-parent-with-the-loss-of-a-child/
https://www.ccef.org/search/?search=Grief
CCEF Counseling Resources for Miscarriage
https://www.ccef.org/search/?search=miscarriage
IBCD Counseling Resources for Grief
https://ibcd.org/?s=grief
Comforting Those Who Have Lost Loved Ones
By Jim Newhieser
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/comforting-those-who-have-lost-loved-ones/
Hope When Hopes Die
By Nancy Snyder
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/hope-when-hopes-die/\
Stand Alone on the Word of God
By Mark Williams
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/stand-alone-on-the-word-of-god-a-miscarriage-story/
Consumed by God’s Love in Our Grief
By Kim Shadday
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/consumed-by-gods-love-in-our-grief/
Interpreting Grief According to God’s Truth
By Ace Espenshied
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/interpreting-grief-according-to-gods-truth/
When Tragedy Strikes
By Grace Glass
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/when-tragedy-strikes-how-to-grieve-with-hope-in-the-lord/
Grieving the Loved Ones We’ve Lost
By Heath Lambert
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-052-grieving-the-loved-ones-weve-lost/
Hope and Joy in a Season of Grief
By Diane Jacoby
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/hope-and-joy-in-a-season-of-grief/
For the Grieving Parent with the Loss of a Child
By Kevin Carson
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/for-the-grieving-parent-with-the-loss-of-a-child/
Audio Resources
Helping Those Who Have Been Widowed
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/helping-those-who-have-been-widowed/
Suffering and Grief
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/suffering-and-grief/
Christmas Joy in Grief
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/christmas-joy-in-grief/
Feeling Abandoned by God
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-240-feeling-abandoned-by-god-feat-brad-bigney/
I Don’t Understand What You are Doing Lord
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/habakkuk-i-dont-understand-what-you-are-doing-lord/
Learning to Pray When the Pain Will Not Leave
By Brad Brandt
https://biblicalcounseling.com/product/learning-to-pray-when-the-pain-will-not-leave-brad-brandt-breakout-session-3/
What Happens to Babies Who Die?
By John MacArthur
https://www.gty.org/sermons/series/269/what-happens-to-babies-who-die
How to Sorrow: Stages of Grief Revisited
By Kevin Carson
https://store.faithlafayette.org/browse-by-topic/christian-life-and-growth/grief-death/how-to-sorrow-stages-of-grief-revisited/
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/helping-those-who-have-been-widowed/
Suffering and Grief
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/suffering-and-grief/
Christmas Joy in Grief
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/christmas-joy-in-grief/
Feeling Abandoned by God
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-240-feeling-abandoned-by-god-feat-brad-bigney/
I Don’t Understand What You are Doing Lord
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/habakkuk-i-dont-understand-what-you-are-doing-lord/
Learning to Pray When the Pain Will Not Leave
By Brad Brandt
https://biblicalcounseling.com/product/learning-to-pray-when-the-pain-will-not-leave-brad-brandt-breakout-session-3/
What Happens to Babies Who Die?
By John MacArthur
https://www.gty.org/sermons/series/269/what-happens-to-babies-who-die
How to Sorrow: Stages of Grief Revisited
By Kevin Carson
https://store.faithlafayette.org/browse-by-topic/christian-life-and-growth/grief-death/how-to-sorrow-stages-of-grief-revisited/