Book Resources

By: Dave Harvey
Marriage is the union of two people who arrive at the altar toting some surprisingly large luggage. Often it gets opened right there on the honeymoon, sometimes it waits for the week after. The Bible calls it sin and understanding its influence can make all the difference for a man and woman who are building a life together. When Sinners Say "I Do" is about encountering the life-transforming power of the gospel in the unpredictable journey of marriage.
By: John Piper
 Reflecting on over forty years of matrimony, John Piper exalts the biblical meaning of marriage over its emotion, exhorting couples to keep their covenant as a display of Christ’s covenant-keeping love for the church. He aims to lift the church’s low view of marriage to something infinitely greater, namely, a vision of Jesus’s unswerving allegiance to and affection for his bride
By: Timothy Keller
 Many modern-day assumptions about marriage are wrong. Timothy Keller, with insights from Kathy, his wife of thirty-seven years, shows marriage to be a glorious relationship that is also misunderstood and mysterious. The Meaning of Marriage offers instruction on how to have a successful marriage, and is essential reading for anyone who wants to know God and love more deeply in this life. 
By: Gary Thomas
Within the pages of Sacred Marriage, Thomas invites you to see how God can use your relationship with your spouse as a discipline and a motivation to love God more and reflect more of the character of his Son.
In addition to life-changing insights from Scripture, church history, and time-tested wisdom from Christian classics, you'll find practical advice and techniques to make your marriage happier by becoming holier husbands and wives.
By: Paul David Tripp
By: Martha Peace
By: Stuart Scott
By: Steve Hoppe
When you say “I do", you begin the journey of a lifetime, and you have dreams of that journey being perfect. But it won’t take long for expectations of the perfect marriage to fade away in the struggles of everyday life. A long-term, vibrant marriage needs to be grounded in something sturdier than romance - it needs the life-changing power of the gospel.
Here is a scripturally based blueprint for the woman who really wants to be the wife God intended her to be. This book is based on Proverbs 31:10. Thousands of women have already discovered the worth of this volume and testify to lives and marriages changed because of a commitment to the principles presented here. The Excellent Wife is an absolute must for women today. Within its pages is a detailed portrait of a godly wife. Not only is the standard high and holy, but Martha demonstrates that by God's grace, it is attainable. 
The official companion book for The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace is a biblical blueprint for the mandate God has given to husbands in the covenant of marriage to love their wives, even as Christ loved the church. Dr. Stuart Scott has responded chapter by chapter to the biblical teaching put forth in Martha's popular book. It is suitable for men's small group Bible studies, or for couples prayerfully seeking God's very best in marriage.
How we communicate with one another matters -- especially in a marriage. The Bible reminds us to use words that build up our spouses, not tear them down. Whether your marriage is a verbal war zone or just needs a little help in the communication arena, both you and your spouse will benefit from the encouragement in these pages. This devotional is not a program to do better; it unveils how God helps you to be better. As you read through it as a team, meditating on Scripture, praying, and using the practical questions and action steps, you will learn to communicate with Christlike love, grow in holiness, and glorify God with your words.
By: C. J Mahaney
By Amy Baker
By Lou Priolo
By: Amy Baker 
The Song of Solomon is an important biblical book for understanding God’s intentions for romance and sex. In Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God, pastor C. J. Mahaney leads men through this biblical book, making the case that sex is a good gift God gave his people to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. Combining light hearted wit and profound wisdom, the author draws from his own experiences of married life and writes about the proper marital roles for men and women as taught in the Bible. Ideal for married men, engaged men, and anyone in the church ministering to them, this book will teach every husband how to cultivate the intimacy with his wife that God intends.
Sadness, depression, anger, fear, anxiety, loyalty conflicts; your children are struggling with at least some of these emotions after your divorce. To make things even more difficult, you are struggling too. How do you help your child cope with the changes in the family, while you're still adjusting? As she explains the various responses you and your children may be having to your divorce, Amy Baker applies the gospel of Jesus Christ in practical and kid-friendly ways to the struggle your family is going through. As you share God's Word with your children, your family will grow in faith and hope through this difficult time.

This hard-hitting booklet is designed to persuade individuals who are intent on pursuing divorce (on other than biblical grounds) to reconsider their plans. The first portion focuses on the likely consequences of such an action. The second refutes nine of the most common justifications for divorce. An appendix addresses the issue of being "in love" with someone other than one's spouse.
You may have grown up in a "Leave It to Beaver" type home, with two parents who loved each other and worked hard to teach you right and wrong. Or perhaps you grew up in a home full of strife. You may have determined at a young age, "I will never let this happen to me." And now here you are. What you thought would never happen has happened. You're divorced. Now what?


By: Jeff and Amy Baker 
By: Jay Adams
A workbook to be used either by individuals doing self-study or in conjunction with the associated leader's guide for group study.
Chapters Include:
More Precious than Rubies - Laying the Foundation for Successful Blended Families, We're On a Roll - Defining Roles Within the Stepfamily, Let's Be One Big Happy Family - Relationships with the Children, Don't Tell Me What to Do. You're Not My Dad, Managing the Family when the Family Consists of a Biological Parent and a Stepparent, Bridging the Divide Between Households - Relationships with the Former Spouse, Especially for the Children - Issues to Be Addressed in Helping the ChildrenEach chapter includes case studies or "How Would You Solve This Problem?" sections to show how to put the material into practice.
A valuable resource for the pastor, the counselor, and individuals, who are struggling to understand and apply scriptural principles to the problems of divorce and remarriage. If the church is going to use the Bible to decide whether divorce is legitimate in certain cases and whether divorced people have the right to remarry with the approval and blessing of God's people, then the Bible must be studied without prejudice toward a particular answer. The author examines the relevant passages in both the Old and New Testaments so that his readers can consider the many issues and interpretations that arise in trying to establish a consistently biblical position.
As a result, readers can see more clearly and accept more firmly the truth of Scripture. The book succeeds at being exactly what the author wanted it to be: "a comprehensive, lucid, accurate study presented in a readable and practical style . . ."

Online Resources

IBCD Counseling Resources on Marriage
https://ibcd.org/free-resources/?_sf_s=marriage

CCEF Counseling Resources on Marriage
https://www.ccef.org/search/?search=marriage

Blended Family: Navigating Marriage and Parenting for God’s Glory
By Kshitiz Sharma Ghimire
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/blended-family-navigating-marriage-and-parenting-for-gods-glory/

Two Truths and  Lie for the Divorced
By Shannon McCoy
https://ibcd.org/two-truths-and-a-lie-for-the-divorced/

Audio Resources 

Thrive: Marriage and Family Podcast
by Brad Bigney
https://fortisplus.org/tabs/search/podcasts/33524

When Marriage and Mercy Collide Sermon Series
Brad Bigney
https://www.graceky.org/sermons/?wpfc_sermon_series=when-marriage-and-mercy-collide

Restoring a Broken or Stagnant Marriage 
By Brad Bigney
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/conference-messages/reviving-a-broken-or-stagnant-marriage/

When Couples Disagree About Sex
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/articles/preparing-for-success-in-relational-conflict/

Cultivating a Spiritually Grounded Marriage
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/cultivating-a-spiritually-grounded-marriage/

How Can my Marriage Survive Adultery? 
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-014-how-can-my-marriage-survive-adultery/

Cultivating Love in your Marriage
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-036-cultivating-love-in-your-marriage-feat-lauren-lambert/

Communication in Marriage
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/resource-library/podcast-episodes/til-160-communication-in-marriage/

Headed for Divorce: What Can We Do to Save the Marriage?
ACBC Truth in Love Podcast
https://biblicalcounseling.com/product/heading-for-divorce-what-can-we-do-to-save-the-marriage-bill-shannon-breakout-session-3/

How to Navigate a Hard Marriage Without Losing Your Faith or Hope
By Greg Gifford
Pt 1: https://fortisplus.org/tabs/search/podcasts/34123/episodes/107
Pt 2: https://fortisplus.org/tabs/search/podcasts/34123/episodes/108

Loving an Unbelieving Spouse
By Greg Gifford
Loving an Unbelieving Spouse: Unequally Yoked Part 3 - Transformed with Dr. Greg Gifford | Podcast on Spotify